Yep I'm bipolar and my bf is bipolar and while it's great that he gets it, it's scary when one of us gets unstable like now. My bf mentioned last night that he was getting more depressed and might have to go inpatient. I can't help him as i have my sons visiting me. He is caring for his elderly Mom and I keep making suggestions for him to get help but he doesn't do them. So i wonder should i really be with this guy? When we're both well there's nothing better but the stability doesn't last for long.