Ingridave said, "Ok, I may not be making sense. I on one hand say there are great guys out there and on the other hand saying I am terrified of being in a relationship.... shrugs shoulders.... For now, single is safety. Single, is also lonely. I will still choose a movie or a book or ice cream over a real live date. lol

I feel the same way, radio_flyer. I am much happier now with a slight distance between myself and men. I like them and respect them, as acquaintances, but if they become interested in dating me....my trust ends there. I cannot take the struggles anymore. I am comfortable with my independence now. "

I could have posted this same comment! I feel the same.
It's actually not a bad place to be.
Patty