Everything you pointed out is so true! We all have choices about how we respond to others behavior, but we can only feel responsiblity for our own actions, (or inactions). Other's behavior is strictly through their own choices, & is unrelated to us, (even though it may not feel that way, especially if they're the type who tend drag you into it), is way beyond our control, so accepting the guilt for other peoples poor choices, or behavior, isn't something we need to add to our own, (already full), plates!