I am currently 6 months pregnant raising four kids, two my own and two of my husband's. He has classic personality disorder with narcissism. He reeled me in and is now playing on my vunerability. I read up on the subject. It says to ignore him and or basically kiss his butt. The lies upon lies scare me. He lies about big things, little things. He is all about himself. We are having money trouble, but it's okay for him to spend it for gambling, going out with the guys etc, even at the expense of the family. He seems not to pay much attention to the family anymore. I feel so alone. He is now gone for the weekend on an outing with his friends. He had the nerve to tell me, "boy I sure look hot". This is the tip of the iceberg. Everything is about him, most of what we watch on TV, when he feels like doing something around the house, and he has unrealistic expectations of me. I was doing very well, but I am having pregnancy complications, but he doesn't help me at all. The more I ask for help and attention, the more he backs off. How does he expect this relationship to work? I love him with all of me and always will, but I am bipolar and don't want to lose myself to him. Our doctor already told me the chances of him cheating on me (I met him when he was married, he left her for me), are huge. So now I sit here with all this terrible information, not knowing how to help him or myself, he is out with the guys drinking all day for a football game and they may be going to a gambling club. No kids are home this weekend, I am lonely and confused. It is so hard when your heart says one thing and your head says another. Dealing with the denial is killing me. Anybody have any other tips to help with this issue? We have a beautiful family, a beautiful house, and I thought a good future, he was sure great in the beginning. I always thought too good to be true....well, that came true. I am rambling, but I need advice, please help