Lizard,

What is the difference between waiting for Mr. Right at 20 and waiting at 27? I cannot believe (although why this should surprise me I do not know) that men would be so idiot as to ask you "what's wrong with you?". I think its wonderful that you respect yourself enough to wait until you feel comfortable. Sex just to get it over with would be horrible.

The question you have to ask yourself is do you think there's something wrong with you? If there's a reason that intimacy frightens you or repulses you, then by all means find a professional to help you through those issues. If the anwer to the question is no, there is nothing wrong with me I just have not found the right person, relax. Prince Charming's horse might be in the shop. He'll come around, just make sure you keep tossing the frogs over. Do not settle.

You asked for input from "overaged virgins", I'll bet you'd get a string of responses if you asked how many of you women out there had sex before it was right and wished they had not and could reset the clock.