What does SOP mean? Standard operating practice? You're not being obnoxious. I don't always agree with you but I do in this case. Yet, T doesn't HAVE to share with me.
I see both sides. I don't have to share what I choose not to with her either. I'm paying her to work with me. I don't ask to see a photo of my cleaning lady's ex husband, but if she wanted to see a photo of my deceased h, I'd show her. I don't know. It's hard because my T and I are compatible. Past Ts I wouldn't think of asking !