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Originally Posted by SarahSweden
Thanks. She said all this at the same time. I donīt see a point in being told about shortcomings, I canīt change them because I know about them, a different approach is needed. By hearing what I feel is critizism I just estrange myself from the situation and the way she acts and talks to me is not a successful kind of intervention.
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Knowing about them leads to the possibility of trying to change them. That's not anyone else's approach to determine. It's yours. You might fail, or you might succeed, but it's your approach that will determine that.