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This thread has sooo much heat, it's warming my whole room.

"does this person improve and decrease my self-esteem?". If they make me feel crappy, out they go. Doesn't matter if this person is friend, or family.

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Yes, and I agree and this time it happens to be SELFISH MEN that we are talking about - that need to go..... and if you (any one reading this) are not a selfish man then you should stick around and not let this thread offend you.


I am sorry, but I so not see the HEAT every one is talking about..... what I see are some women talking about the "selfish men" in their life and in this world, but nothing else.

What I do see (from my pov) is that most of the heat coming from those in defense of some thing that did not need defending..... for once again the topic was "Selfish Men" and not that of "Men that are not Selfish" or "Selfless Men" - maybe we if we all stayed on the subject at hand then matters could flow as they need / should have.

And while I did not post my words as many feel that I should have - I did state in my first post that this was about ME and HOW I was feeling and that I did not want or need any HATE replies...... so see I did say what others are wanting / demanding from me - just in my own words.

P.S.
I am not mad or angry at YOU - just expressing my feelings. (its all good)