If you were "scared for" your grandson because of his mother's "attitude toward him," then it seems you have serious misgivings about your daughterls way of parenting. Your misgivings may be well-founded. (I'm not in a position to know.) Would you like to talk about that. It's hard to give feedback when you give no specifics.
I have no children, but I am told that there is just about nothing that a woman will resent more than any intimation that her way of mothering is other than what might be in the best interests of her child. You have to tread ever so lightly in this territory.
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