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yes i can see how dictator "experiments" are applicable to the rest of the us. After all dont we all oppress everyone we come in contact with. You say that you dont bash others who have different point of views but then proceed to categorize anyone who disagrees with you as being a child. Sorry if you are having problems or experiences with one man or even many men than yes you should get support, but when you cross the line into categorizing all men or most men as being selfish, then that just becomes hateful ranting. If you werent serious it would be laughable. You go on and hate whoever you want and categorize whoever you want, im sure you will get all the support you need from like minded people. One thing this thread has done is to have me appreciate many of the other women here at PC, who are not afraid to disagree with this group think hateful blame game.
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Joe..... I am sorry that you have chosen to take this thread as a personal attack against ALL MEN or that I did not us the word "A Lot of Men" in every reply I posted... for I do know that some men (probably 50% to 50%) give or take a few either way are not selfish in all they do or within the relationships they hold with others.
And please know that I could not have said what I thinking or feeling any better that what I expressed in my original post concerning "Selfish Men" and "Selfish Men Only"
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Ok NOW! - this post is about ME and how I am FEELING....... so Please - NO HATE REPLIES.
MEN........ Grrrrrrrrrrrr
Frankly after forty years of being on this earth I can honestly say that a lot of MEN (if not most) are very SELFISH MEAN and CRUEL more in life than they need to be and I could probably spend the rest of my forty or so more years here on earth with out another man in my life.
Can I get an AMEN!! to that?
I have spent a large majority of my life learning about and understanding the Male species from their POV and giving and letting be based on what they needed as a MALE...... but no more - for when I ask for just a little FEMALE understanding and support I get "I Can't" for I am MALE and I don't work that way" - well the hell with them then.
I will NO LONGER give to a MAN that cannot or is not willing to give back to ME.
I would rather live along with my animals than to waste another day of my life on a selfish male.
Can I get an AMEN!! to that?
I WANT TO BE FREE - to be ME again........ Female with out Worries of the Male kind!
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And just because some women (probably 50% to 50%) will see males as being selfish that does not make us wrong..... just done wrong - by men.
<font color="purple"> I would dare to say that most people (male & female) will fit into one of these catogories / sides.
Women are *****y (50% to 50%) - half and half.
Men are Selfish (50% to 50%) - half and half.
And - I will validate either side....... either for or against, for that is that person thoughts / feelings based on their life and experiences and not mine - so I have no right to tell them how they should feel.
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I would really like to get back to the subject at hand (my issue with selfish men).
Can you please allow that? - and instead of bashing me how about praying for me and the selfish people of this world?