I'm not sure what your activity is on the site. I myself - chiefly out of respect for my SO - limit my activity to the forums. Have the two of you conversed about social media expectation? What are you own feelings about him chatting?

My own social media friends are limited to only those acquaintances I know offline. I expect the same of my SO. But that is me. I have a past history in relationships where other men in my life's online activites have crossed the line.