Thanks divine. No . . . . . . I can't change them. I didn't expect they'ld be this heartless . . . . not to a man who isn't that far from the end of his days.

Well, I'll still show him face book pics . . . but I won't put up "likes" for awhile. Not when they seem to think an exchange on fb counts as remembering their father on a major holiday. I think, if I even open his fb page, it shows up on their fb pages as him being active on fb, so maybe I won't even open him on fb.

As it is, I don't show him all their political posts - some of which are so nasty. It's interesting to see the personal family values - or lack thereof - that go with their political leanings.