I'm on a dating site. I wait for the men to initiate contact. I'm pretty picky too. I want someone who is intelligent, funny, kind and compassionate. Stable life. But I'm not that focused on it. I have my family, my son, friends and my own issues and interests that I focus on.

You're so focused on it. Ppl have given you great advice on adding things into your life to focus on. I think if finding a man is your goal in life, men can sense that.

I had a man that seems like my type and we were messaging on the site. Then it was late so we went to bed. I haven't heard back from him. I'm ok with it. I don't get that invested. I might message him in a couple days but if I don't hear back from him, he's obviously not interested.

My advise, look for other ways to meet men. Look at enriching your own life. Don't make meeting a man your main goal.

I'm hopefully going to be driving again by summer. I'm planning on doing some activism. As well as taking classes. I plan on meeting ppl that way. Maybe I'll meet a man, maybe I won't. Maybe look into going to college...