I agree with Rose. I understand you want to find somebody, but when you focus too much on dating without using your time and energy to do other things with your life in the meantime, others do sense that. Also, most people who date want to see that you have a life outside of them, other interests, and that you are your own person with other goals.

It's also unhealthy to constantly seek the validation of others (i.e. these guys you are talking to) and to invest too much in someone early on. You may find it's much more fulfilling to just go with the flow and not worry too much about guys you are meeting. Basically, shift your focus on to new things, rather than just people. It will benefit you and also your chances of finding the right match and a healthy relationship in the future.