Thanks. What I might gain from that, having to deal with her critizism, even if itīs indirect, is perhaps that I learn how to ignore more and try to forget. I donīt know, I feel itīs so far from what one should have to experience in therapy.
No, she isnīt helping me that much but sheīs the only T at this clinic and they donīt do referralls and thatīs why I have stayed with her with hope about improvements. I just feel I lose hope and I donīt know if itīs any point in even try finding another T. Perhaps my problems are just unsolvable.
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To me, these statements sound pretty insightful, like you understand yourself and how you respond to your T pretty well. You've written before about some of her limitations, as you see it specifically in relation to helping you with anything. But I wonder -- in learning yourself about how you respond to her and her criticism and shaming -- will that perhaps in any way help, at least in terms of your own self-knowledge?
That might be something which you have gotten out of this therapy? Other than that, it doesn't seem like this T is helping you very much?
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