Hello Lemnirat: I'm sorry you find yourself to be in this challenging situation. I don't know as I really have any useful suggestions for you. From my perspective, I think the best course of action here may simply be to cast this relationship adrift. It just sounds as though it's not going anywhere. Plus it's making you feel uncomfortable. But that's just my personal opinion. Perhaps other members, here on PC, will have some better insight to offer.

I see this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to PsychCentral… from the Skeezyks! May the time you spend here be of benefit.