So, just want to vent a little more...it's already really frustrating going to visit them because the guest bed is up in the loft, and they wake up multiple times during the night and are really loud about letting the dogs out and getting something to drink and whatever. They are completely rude and inconsiderate about it. And then I can't even try to nap during the day because again, the bed is in the loft space and they are making all sorts of noise. They wake me up in the middle of the night two or three times and each time it takes me at least an hour to fall back asleep AFTER they finally stop making noise.

I want to visit my mom, but I can't afford a hotel room to visit for multiple days without putting it on my credit card and I'm not going to wrack up a whole bunch of debt just to visit them. I'm just not going to be able to visit them that much anymore.

I just don't understand how they can be so rude to guests, even if they are family. It's just another reminder to me of the toxic family I come from and why I distance myself from them.

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