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Old Dec 26, 2016, 10:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Skies View Post
People keep saying that--but the therapist's boundary was not to show Rainbow a picture of her husband in session (i initially said name in a prior post but meant picture). She could have done that for therapeutic reasons (I am guessing she did). I did not see anything written to the contrary. The 'theme' being she would avoid Rainbow's indirect steering the therapy to the therapist's personal life, which moves the therapy away from Rainbow's issues.

If Rainbow's therapist tries to censor Rainbow's online searching outside of the session, it seems her therapist would be the one crossing boundaries by being controlling; also disrespectful of Rainbow by impinging on her autonomy.


Rainbow isn't trying to control the therapist at all. The boundary for me exists only in the therapist's space: office or other space, like her home. Maybe excessive texting, emailing, calling could also invade that space.

But the therapist has no right to constrict or even try to constrict what rainbow does outside of session.
Thanks for this!
awkwardlyyours, rainbow8