That's part of keeping the pattern alive, I think. Rainbow (and some here) was the one who said she is 'crossing a boundary' by googling her husband to see what he looked like. Not the therapist.
Maybe her therapist stated it, but it wasn't in this thread that I could tell.
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Originally Posted by atisketatasket
See, that's interesting. The therapist hasn't always been happy about rainbow's interest in her personal life...but still accepts her. I mean, I think people on here are more critical and shaming of rainbow than her therapist is. Maybe that's what the compulsion is: to keep checking that the therapist accepts her (even though I don't think the googling represents any boundary violation).
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