Ok question here - I googled my t early in our relationship, when I decided to go the long haul. I googled her and her husband. I periodically check in again mostly out of boredom. Yesterday I did google image search for an image that I knew was out there of her because of wanting to see her (I don't keep good mental image of people) and I don't like the one that the clinic has on their site. I have never told her and the only reason I feel I might should is out of respect. Based on what I have been reading, perhaps I don't need to do that?

I have been seeing this person for over a year now and plan on seeing her for a few more, she has heard many of my intimate details already. I have tried to be open as much as I can with her. At what point does it only seems appropriate to let her know, and if the answer is never then phew I can relax about that talk?