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Just because a T (or anyone else) doesn't state something is a boundary, doesn't mean it's not.
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Of course not, we are not idiots here. But if its a socially accepted and safe activity that people do in their own homes, for example then yes, they do need to make it clear.
Thats not supposed to be taken literally and without context. Someone who is a stranger might not have to state "dont hug me" boundary to a group at a business meeting, but a family member in a group of hugging family members might have to state it verbally and explicitly to the group who has that custom.
Her T actually told her to go ahead and google her husband. Everyone here keep saying its the therapist boundary when its everyones boundary but the therapist's. How is that being respectful to her now?
Anyway, im responding because i think it was me who wrote that, and this interpretation distorted the meaning of my post.