As y'all know, two weeks ago I broke up with my boyfriend. And though I was the dumper, I still felt pain because I truly loved him, but I just couldn't take his treatment of me anymore. But I'm beginning to fill a bit better.

Yet he managed to hurt me still, through my family! He's spreading false stories, gossip to them, especially through my son. I don't know how to handle this. Tonight I texted him to let know I'm aware of what's going on and that I want it to stop! Lol. Oh I'm fully aware it may not.

Yet Im also incensed at my son too! He's not a little boy. He's a married 49 year old man with a child. I told him today that I feel betrayed, etc, etc. And I'm sure he wouldn't appreciate it if I did the same to him, especially concerning his wife.

I was raised to "mind your own B I business!" I raised my children the same. I'm aware there are things going on in my grown children's lives. Yet I couldn't say what they are because I "mind my own B I business." The same with my siblings, etc. And unless they reveal those things, I don't pry.

So I'm hurting both by my ex spreading his poison, and my son gulping it down!

Oh and by the way...my ex is a 76 year old man child.