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Originally Posted by Skies
I dont disagree with you, but if the therapist stated she didnt feel comfortable working with someone who googled her husband, then it would be a boundary.
A related point in my other posts was that her therapist never even mentioned googling, so how can everyone keep saying boundaries were being disrespected here-boundaries that never even existed. 
How can a boundary be disrespected/ crossed/violated if it didnt even exist, whether direcrly stated or not. There was no argument. |
That's the time to **** with their heads. Push a boundary that's not really a legit boundary. Probably they'd end up thinking 'But why is this client trying to push this boundary, I have to figure this out in session!?!'. Use it to get into their heads cause it's pretty clear that you're not getting into their pants atleast not into a good 90% of them. Isn't it the therapist's duty to say terminate with a client they're not comfortable working with? I'm not comfortable my therapist being my therapist instead of friend or lover but I have to tolerate that.