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Originally Posted by Bill3
It must have been devastating to receive those hurtful texts at midnight during the holiday season. I'm so sorry you had to deal with that.
What options are you considering? What would be the pros and cons of not accepting the apology?
(((((xRavenx)))))
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Thanks, Bill. I am probably going to have a serious talk with her about how this type of behavior is unacceptable. Even though she did apologize, I will have to explain that just an apology is not enough and that she will have to prove through her actions that she is willing to make a change. Sometimes she'll just apologize and say that she's 'not perfect.' I'm not asking for perfection, but just making a basic change that any friend would make who truly cares. I'll remind her of this.
It comes down to actions speak louder than words. Last time she apologized, I thought she really was going to stick with it, so the text rants out of nowhere shocked me. Also, I'm going to give myself a little distance before I'm ready to fully trust her again.