Mine is female, just by luck as the male therapist I was initially referred to decided to not to take on any more cases before he even met me as he was scheduled to leave in 9 months.

For me it is more their gender expression than their actual gender that will affect my comfort level. They have to be more neutral in gender for me to respond, high femme and nope can't relate or hang, alpha male and I'm too intimidated to open up.

In fact, my t has started to dress/present more feminine and I realized it is starting to bug me.