Hey there and Welcome.

First, I'd like to say that I agree with "eskielover" about being able to do anything one did before they were pregnant and doing them when pregnant. I was 8 months pregnant when I moved 2000 miles-- packed and lifted boxes, cleaned and scrubbed, also had to get the old yard in shape for selling so I moved wheelbarrow after wheelbarrow of rock-- and to top it off-- I had a 20 month old to care for too.

Now, second-- I might be way off here-- just wanted to give you something to consider-- My mother-in-law gets angry at my father-in-law whenever he tries to help her. She has a way to do things and doesn't care for them to be done differently. It's a kind of comfort I think, for her to know that things are done "her" way. I've heard that some people can have issues of "control" when it comes to doing things a certain way-- don't know if your girlfriend is like that about her cooking and laundry but just thought it'd be something else to think about......

And third-- I wish you could come to my house-- I'd absolutely adore you doing the laundry and cooking!!!

take care,

mandy