Female. I'm married and feel guilty when I become friends/emotionally attached to other males (I have felt this way about some of my male supervisors). Though one of my closest relationships was with a male in his 60s (I was in my 20s), I never felt guilty about that one because I looked at him as my "second father"; I was his Executive Officer, every piece of paper he saw and person on his calendar passed through my box or by my desk before seeing him and we worked long days together sometimes. It was an awesome relationship and my H was friends with him too.