All the replies here are not only appreciated,but helpful too.They are helping me understand myself a little better.

My male therapist was extremely helpful for trauma therapy,for the abuse I experienced in childhood.It took a few years of going before I actually started talking about it,but I was able to completely open up to him and work through it.Being abused by so many males,it would seem like it would have been easier to open up to a female,and I would not have been able to talk to a male at all,because I have never trusted them either.But,I think my fear of not being believed or being blamed for the abuse was stronger than my fear of seeing a male(because my Mom blamed me and beat me for being sexually abused).

While in therapy,it never felt like the abuse happened to me,and for that reason I could talk about it.

But,I was not able to talk about anything related to adult sexuality with him,or problems in the present.For those things I feel I need a female T ,so maybe that's what I need now(?).