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Originally Posted by divine1966
Wow. I can't imagine how he is going to pay loans if He is unemployed. I imagine he borrowed tons of money if he is still paying it 20 years later! He might need to see a therapist, there must be something going with him that he'd quit well paid job. Wow. It appears that unless he seeks help for himself (or you quit supporting him) nothing will change. I can't imagine how you two manage. You must make tons of money. We both hold well paid full time professional jobs yet we have not much money for extras.
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No I don't make tons of money. Only bring home about $60,000 a year. I have just never been a spender and had so much money saved before I met him. Key word there is "had" money saved. A lot of that is gone now, but I still have a reserve. My monthly paycheck can usually cover everything, but I still need to withdraw about $500/month from my savings to help make ends meet if I don't get any help from him. I am definitely not adding anything to my account having him around. thank god I have my 401k at work. that's up over $100,000
Of course, I can't touch any of that for another 15 years.