Just a question: Is everything we do related to something that happened? Can some things just be how we are? This just came up in session for me yesterday with regard to my sensitivity. I posed it as the reason my family hates me. She said, or it could be the result of being the object of hate. I don't know the answer, but when there's uncertainty, and seeking the historical "why" I am the way I am doesn't move me forward, then the only thing left is to accept this about myself and figure out ways to live and maybe move forward without feeding and focusing on the "I'm too sensitive" issue.