The more I read these stories the more afraid I get. I am involved with atleast the second N that I know of. Do N's ever admit to it? Do they ever love anyone else other than themselves to try to change? Is it a hopeless case? It appears that way in all my reading. I don't want another failed marriage, I don't think me or the kids could take it. No less, I agreed to get my tubes untied and have another baby (6 mo. pregnant right now) because he really wanted a baby. I wanted a product of what I though was our love, but now I question is there love from an N or is it all an act to get their way? I would love to hear all opinions on the matter. Thanks everyone.