I started drinking when I was 13 and been taking painkillers and really whatever meds I could get my hands on when I was 14 and I know I have to lay off and quit... but I'm really not sure where to start. I don't want to check into rehab (I work) and I really don't want to go to AA (personal reasons).

I have an amazing group of friends, but they've suggested everything from getting a pet dog and learning an instrument to playing video games and boxing.

I've tried to stop in the past but it's never worked and my girlfriend and I have are having our first child so I don't want to screw things up this time because I see this as a new chance and this means everything to me.

Thanks everyone and I'm glad I can come online and get advice & help.

-Vince