Sunrise,
I am sorry you went through all that, as I am now living it. I asked him to go to marriage counseling and he said why? So you (meaning me) can put my spin on things? Hopefully when the doctor confronts him, I can put my foot down better. He is out tonight with the guys which he rarely does do, I have to admit that. All I am doing is sitting here worrying whether he is with another girl. You know the guy code. Thanks for the input. Tonight has been a huge eye opener for me, not in a good way though. I am more sad and scared. But I need to deal. I hope you are happy now with your life. You are very strong in my eyes. I am trying to get all the info I can and use it wisely. I could use a little of your strength right now.