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Originally Posted by stopdog
I actually think all the angst over internet searching therapists/people connected to them is a bit over the top. Just do it and go on with your life if one is that curious about those people. It is not hurting the therapist any.
I find the more curious part to me to be the urge to confess (which is what is seems like people are doing when they tell the therapist) to the therapist - why bother with that part?
I find that to be more pathological than the original searching.
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My T knows me too well. One reason I tell is because she knows when something about her is bothering me. I can't hide it. I also tell because, like someone else said, I want to know if she will still accept me if I'm bad. I also want her to know that it's an issue for me, this compulsion to look up people.