Thread: Fear of sex
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Old Dec 28, 2016, 10:00 PM
_berliner01 _berliner01 is offline
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Originally Posted by Shazerac View Post
Maybe you are someone who needs to take it really really slow in getting to the sex point in a relationship. There's nothing no wrong with that. Do you feel like you "should" have sex? Or do you really want to have sex. If the answer is should then don't push yourself or try to force yourself. There is nothing wrong with waiting until you are ready.
Oh I know, I have waited my whole life at this point so I understand there isn't anything wrong with waiting. I only want to have sex when I'm in a relationship so taking it slow is key, i just can't seem to get my head around combating this awkwardness I feel at the thought of laying there, let alone taking charge.
The fact it'll be with someone I'm in love with I think makes it more nerve wracking. Thanks for your reply.