Looser,

I've come in here many times, I so want to say something that will make you realize that even though you say you do not want to hurt or degrade woman that is exactly what you are doing. I am not trying to be hurtful you are sick and need help. It took me about 6 or 7 attempts to finish reading the posting. I wish I hadn't. When you get in your car looking for women... you are hunting!

The idea that I or, God Forbid, my daugher would cross your path makes me very angry because we should have the freedom to walk down the street without being sexually assaulted. And in this state, that is exactly what it is.

I am also confused by the statement that your girlfriend isn't attractive. Why on earth would you be with a woman that you do not find attractive? It does not sound like you have a very high opinion of women in general.

Lizard is right, right now you are rationalizing your behavior so that you may get aroused, what happens when this doesn't work anymore? Is the next step then that its okay to grope a stranger on the bus? What next?

All that aside, you know that you have a problem that requires immediate expert medical attention and I beg you to get it, if not for the sake of the woman you are hurting, but to prevent yourself from being arrested and labeled a sex offender. Please get help. Feeling bad after the act is not enough. Just because you're sorry does not make it ok. Get help now, it is irresponsible not to.