It sounds like you two are just not a good match. Unsure what could possibly keep you two together but since you don't want to get divorced and can't change him, all you could do is change yourself and your own life.

My husband and I do like many same things but our work schedules don't match and we can't always do things together. So I belong to several women meetup groups. So when our schedule don't match and I don't want to be home I am out and about with other women. Can you try that? I really enjoy women company. It will keep your mind off things and you won't feel like you are alone because you'd be with other ladies. Try it? What do you care if he is mad?