Well, so should we wait with worrying until the break us up? World certainly didn't and we had few nasty ugly days.

I am scared and worried. And for one I find it invalidating if I should wait with voicing my worries because of some impossed break. Others are allowed to whine their worries, and these are mine. They are no lesser than "he said, she said", "my meds aren't working", or "i am manic/depressed". I am worried about the world on fire, about how will I handle it. And no, turning off news will not help, not anymore than "thinking happy thoughts".