Oh I know he'll immediately say to me "Oh but this is in a different area and they pretty much keep to themselves and it will be totally different there". No it won't. It won't be any different. He's just talking it up in his head. Just like when we almost bought a house almost an hour south of his job. I told him he would get frustrated with the commute and he went "No I won't. I'll just hop on my motorcycle and get up there in no time". The house we ended up getting is about 30 minutes from his job and he complains endlessly about THAT commute! If it were an hour away he simply wouldn't go in because of that!