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Old Dec 29, 2016, 09:07 PM
Sarmas Sarmas is offline
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Originally Posted by Skeezyks View Post
I recall, quite a few years ago now, during a period where I was seeing a Nurse Practitioner, I once happened to see her at a local grocery store. My first instinct was to go up & say hello. But then I thought... she's no doubt on her way home after a long day at work. The last thing she needs is to be "buttonholed" in the grocery store by one of her patients. I've always been glad I walked away...
I hear ya. I'm the same way. I always feel like a bother to people. Now I usually don't text or email unless someone initiates it first. I text my kids T only to address things in session. If she wouldn't have said hello I would've never said hello first. I don't like having people feeling obligated to go out of their way especially if they don't want to. She initiated and I welcomed it as best as I could whole trying not to be triggered. It's especially odd when things end at a point where you don't know ho ether other person has viewed the whole scenario. I basically said that I quit and she said good luck but how she actually felt I have no idea about.