Rainbow8, just remember this as well as what the others have said here. And that is, by pushing the boundry set forth by T, you may make that person feel so uncomfortable even to just being on the same Board, that T feels compelled to just say Bye and leave the Board just to be away from you.

Some people set boundries as Soft Limits, in that they can be pushed and stretched at time. Some set boundries as Hard Limits, in that these cannot be pushed, tested, or stretched in the slightest. Just saying, so please think before pushing T's set boundries.