I've posted about how a friend of mine broke off contact with me a while ago .The circumstances were very hurtful and followed what I found to be months of lies and hurtful behaviour.She has mental health issues.I was very surprised when,just now,I received a birthday card as this seemed at odds with what I had taken to be a final breaking of contact-certainly,I had not attempted to contact her since-as much as anything,to protect myself from more hurt.Maybe the birthday card means nothing at all,maybe it's her way of trying to make herself feel better,I don't know.Anyway,I decided I wanted to just send her some nice "friendship" words-maybe saying I was hurt but would give things another go or along those lines/to encourage her to contact me more(but put more nicely than that!).Anyone know of any nice words /sayings/poems which would fit this situation?-I'm finding it hard to think what to say.

On the other hand,should I just carry on doing what I've been doing-ie nothing,and leave it up to her to do more if that's what she wants?