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Originally Posted by seesaw
I agree, pay the bills, but don't give him any money. And when you buy groceries, only buy stuff that you like. Don't give him money for gas or restaurants or any kind of allowance, especially if you are paying all the bills. Don't pay his daughter's tuition (that's his responsibility) and don't pay for his alimony or whatever.
Kind of random question: you say you don't believe in divorce, but was he married before to the daughter's mother? So he was divorced and you were okay marrying a divorced man? From a religious standpoint, you wouldn't even marry a divorced man because he is still spiritually married to that other woman. I'm just confused by your logic.
Seesaw
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He wasn't married to his daughter's mother but he was married previously to someone else, which lasted about 4 months because she was about 12 years younger than him and up and sold all his stuff and moved out when he was at work one day. He got an annulment before we married. Trust me, that was a lesson in patience. It took nearly 2 years before he finally got through that. I imagine now that that was because it was hard and he would rather play video games than deal with that.