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You cannot change another person you can only work on you. If this is bothering you then you need to decide if you are going to stay or leave. Perhaps your wife will consent to couples therapy and you can both discuss these things in a neutral setting without judgement. But to judge her and condemn her actions on assumptions and circumstantial evidence is a recipe for disaster.
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Nammu
…Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. …...
Desiderata Max Ehrmann
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