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Originally Posted by Vibrating Obsidian
If more people were like this the world would've been a brighter place.
Doing something for someone is one thing, but doing something for someone and feel good afterwards? That is a bonus for selflessness!
But know this - not everyone deserves being given something. What I can advice you is to recognize who deserves giving and who doesn't.
Thee worse someone makes you feel in general, the less giving they deserve.
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This is a good point. Sometimes I have a habit giving to the wrong people, because I make excuses for them: that they aren't capable of giving to the extent I do because of what's going on in their lives, but there needs to be give-and-take. I think I have some co-dependent tendencies though and wish to work on this. I have no idea why....but these patterns are tough to change.