Yes, we cannot know tomorrow. I was alone and 35 when I met my to-be husband. I'm glad I kept "putting one foot in front of the other" to get there. It was because of my past life experiences, not in spite of them, that I was able to become "myself" and who I am today. If I had not had therapy when I did, when I met my husband I still would not have been ready "for" him, could not have responded to him as I did which made all the difference.