I've left my husband after 15 yrs of domestic violence. Was diagnosed with m.s 2 yr ago. The abuse wasn't alot 15-20 times. It was getting better. The for some reason 9mths b4 we split he started to go downhill. Yelling at me in the car, sleeping on the couch ect. Anyway he went after my oldest son drunk one nite. I got in the middle he thru me to the ground my son put him down on the ground and held him there until my father rescued us, and my 3 boys. I commiserated with my best friend who was also having a problem with her husband. She had me do things that made him madder at me. Then she 'fell off' the face of the planet. I found out 1 and 1/2 mnths ago that they're now dating. It's been 7mnths since the split. I'm seeing 2 therapists. But they won't give me a timeline on the grieving process. I still feel as raw as when the split 1st happened, and when I found out about the 2 of them. When will this go away. And when will the 2 of theem being together lose it's ability to hurt me. I'm desperate please help.