Sometimes we feel stuck with a job and the only way out is out! And instead of using that time to properly get ahead in life we succumb to being useless, powerless, shamefull, etc. A job comes up and you've been out of work so you take it and the cycle continues... when she was on my case (which I do encourage) I preferred if she was nice about it. Comments like video games again? Aren't you doing anything with your life? They do not help.