For me, I like to address my anger with T sooner rather than later in order to sort things out. But since you feel pushed into scheduling the session, maybe that's not what you need right now.

My T has also made the "we are not equals" comment, but for me it didn't mean he's better than me, as a person. It's that in our relationship, I pay him to help. I ask him to lend some expertise to understanding my experiences. That sets up a power differential even thought we both treat each other respectfully and as intellectual equals. I do think sharing your feelings about that comment would be helpful, whether you decide to address it now or n the future.