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Old Dec 31, 2016, 03:43 PM
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Originally Posted by Echos Myron View Post
I had this debate with someone on my course. The only thing he really came up with is that the T chooses where we each sit. I think that's quite trivial. I don't feel any power differential with my T at all. If anything, I set the agenda so I have the power.
I have taken in my own chair before. The woman only has a really awful couch for clients - I despise it so I took in my own chair.

For me, I would take in my own stuff and use it -but I would never rearrange her stuff. I do not even touch the pillows on the awful couch nor do I ever touch anything on her table that is between her chair and said awful couch.
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Thanks for this!
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